This is a question thats plagued me for as long as I can remember. 'Am I too nice for my own good?' The most often response is 'Of course not, you're perfect the way you are' I take that as the nice response.
Today though I got what I think is the honest answer 'Yes, sickeningly nice. Girls prefer the b*stards' This response may be cynical, but honestly when someone is nice to us, we (guys and girls) question their motives until we can trust them enough.
In the end of the day though, I am a nice guy, it is who I am, I can't change that and I dont think I want to.
Till next time in Waseem world